Got this recently from www.nairaland.com quite fascinating, a guy decided to list this to educate the female species what men really want.
Ok here's my take on what men want in a woman, as i have replied the lady. Well, let me just first say that this is only MY opinion. I think men want the following:
1. A physical allure. Yes we are visual creatures. This is not necessarily beauty we crave, but more about her look being appealing to our individual preferences.
2. We look for a certain "swagger". We want a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. Has a confident air that shows throughout her personality ( This comes back to haunt us later, sometimes). With decency and great sense of humor.
3. We look for femininity. Yes we want her to have the confident swagger, but we want her to look, feel, smell, taste, dress, and move LIKE A WOMAN!
4. We want her to have a desire to please us. Not bow down to us, but desire to please us. Women mess this up a lot ( they will attempt to please us by doing the things they THINK we will love, instead of doing the things we TOLD THEM WE LOVE, oops, that's a different blog).
5. We want a woman who KNOWS what she believes; has a strong knowledge base, but doesn't try to take our leadership from us (even if she can do a better job, and if she can do better, then we want her to slide us a little teaching into our thick heads, not beat us down with it.) well motivated and creative in ideas.
6. We want a woman who will accept the fact that we aren't great men YET, and will encourage us to greatness, not badger us because we haven't acheived yet. And no matter how successful we are she is willing to remain a good backer. Afterall is common saying that, behind every successful man there is a woman.
7. We want a woman who will pray for us. You'D be surprised the effect on us when we see & hear you pray for us.
8. We want a woman who will exert actual energy in physical intimacy. Get on top; lick here, suck there and gently guide us in what we need to do to bring you to ; and occasionally allow us to F--- you rather than always make love. This is sometimes not always to keep the relationship lively as it was from beginning. Also, give us the same level of romance as you want, but see number 4. (uh, we're all grown, so pardon my bluntness)
9. We want a woman who will share. You shouldn't have to take care of a grown man, but if you have a pack of hot dogs already in the fridge, don't make us go buy another pack when you crave a hot dog (did that make sense?) that is genious in making the best out of any moment. Caring!.
10. We want an independent woman, but only meaning you don't NEED us to support you. You don't have to come to the table with as much as us. But you need to be willing to come to the table period! Even if neither of us has a table. That is an intelligent liberal woman, down to earth, simple and understanding.
11. We want a woman who will uplift our character in our presence and out of our presence. Don't be afraid to speak a kind word on our behalf. It won't make our heads swell. Only our hearts. We want women to understand us enough to know when to talk and when to shut-up, LISTEN and USE, the information you get from your man to please your man.
12. We want a woman who will give us enough rope to hang ourselves. This calls for women to trust again, even though you may have been hurt before. Many men don't give a damn about what you have done in the past, or what has worked in the past.[/color]
13. We want a woman who can accept a man's flirtations without destroying him in rejection, yet also without giving him any reason to believe that you might give him the coochie or time that you have labeled as belonging to us. Whew. This one is deep. You might want to read it twice, Basically, reject dudes who try to hit on you, but don't crush their ego or make them feel sorry for the boyfriend. Loland the most important one,
14. We want a woman who loves us without measure! And shows it.That's what REAL MEN want. But you probably should have asked what we really NEED.
OK THIS IS A BIT EXHAUSTIVE BUT THE GUY MADE HIS POINT, I GUESS I HAVE A FEW THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND.
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I found your blog quite interesting. I am referring to the article on what men want. Sounds a little bit in-complete to me though. That sounds like a woman for the season, not a woman for life. Maybe I am just a creature out of touch but I specifically cherish a woman with brains, good attitude and great communication skills. A woman who is rather simple, articulate and yet retaining the touch of a woman's nature. Cool, yet warm and friendly, gorgeous and modest, caring and affectionate. Open minded, adventurous and not just interested but interesting to be with. A woman who is opened and flexible. Not needing much, not rich as such and definitely not too entangled with circumstances or chained to her own perceptions. A woman who is willing, able and ready to set goals and work on plans with a man. A woman like that is a partner for life.
Akin
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